Posts Tagged ‘achieving peace of mind’

Nick’s Tip Of The Day—Richard Geller

Tuesday, July 13th, 2010

Yesterday, my daughter, Juliette, and I were out around lunch time, and she was in dire need of a tuna melt. So we stopped at Nicks, a local eatery. Even in this recession, with so many of the shoreline restaurants holding on by the skin of their teeth, this simple family storefront restaurant manages to draw a loyal crowd of regulars.

The food is mostly basic, with lots of choices, and all of it tasty. None of it is too expensive. No one leaves Nicks thinking they didn’t get a square deal. But the bonus is Nick himself.

A youthful 87 years old, Nick comes around to every table, “Hello. How are you?”—engaging old timers and newcomers alike. As we’re leaving, we thank Nick, and he asks Juliette about where she goes to school and what grade she’s in. She’s charmed by him; he’s like instant grandpa. Two ladies come through the door, “Hello, ladies, find a comfortable place; take a seat.” After they pass he says, “You talk nice to people, they like you.”

All day Juliette and I imitate Nick’s accent and sweet voice, “You talk nice to people; they like you.” We smile whenever we think of him. Nicks is now our favorite place.

Personally—Richard Geller

Friday, July 2nd, 2010

Personally

Personally I don’t entertain beliefs
Any more than is absolutely necessary—
The problem with them being
They rarely perform as advertised
And may in fact more often
Blind us to the truth than reveal it

Today I’m told a story about brothers—
About how when one tried to introduce
The new love who’d come into his life
The other brother’s wife barred her
From ever crossing their threshold—
Living as they were “in sin”

After a lifetime with her and two grown sons
The brothers themselves are barely reconciled.
We visit the one now grown desperately
Lonely for she whose passing
At the mere mention of her name
Brings tears for his shunned beloved

Fathers Day—Richard Geller

Monday, June 21st, 2010

Fathers Day

In moments of unbridled
Optimism and hope
Where his son was concerned,
My father would utter his
Standard pronouncement,
“You’re finally on your way, Dick.”
(I was Dick back then.)

He meant well—encouraging one
Short-lived impulse of mine after another
To attempt a more grounded
Pragmatic approach towards life.
Trust me, if you should ever have a child
Who’s a dreamer, for such a person
Dreams trump practical considerations

Nonetheless we are all always “on our way.”
Arrivals and departures
Like beginnings and endings
Being constraints language imposes, not reality
Where no one can with any accuracy locate
The precise beginning or ending of anything
And what we are belongs to a realm where there are no words

What’s important is that my father loved me
And I him and wished for me the very best.
He viewed the world differently than his son—
My odd view of things providing him
With reason for doubts and concerns.
In the end, though, it all works out, Dad.
Happy Fathers Day

Things Are Not Necessarily What They Seem—Richard Geller

Sunday, April 11th, 2010

For those who are following this experiment in DTF (direct to fan) marketing (thanks Blake Butterfield for the term, DTF), I feel that in the first nine months after launching aSiteAboutSomething, I’ve reached a fairly stable level of visits (3000+) a month from up to 64 countries, averaging 2.3 or so visits per visitor, and approximately 5% spending 15 minutes to over an hour. Yesterday I decided it’s now time to try expanding my marketing efforts to include bloggers and the press. This will involve doing some research first, but I’m thinking that getting even a few book, music or site reviews will encourage more folks with a natural inclination toward engaging with words and music to visit. I don’t know of course. I’m making this up as I go along. I’ll let you know as I try things in the hopes that some of the things I do (like coattail marketing and LinkedIn) prove useful for you too. In the meantime, here’s the second poem in True Worldly Things. As always I welcome your comments or suggestions.

You Have To Be A Certain Age

You have to be a certain age
To wake one morning
Walk sleepily into the bathroom
And stare at the reflection
Of yourself
Staring back at you
In disbelief,
“That’s not me,” you say.
“Who the hell is that?”

You may even try
To dismiss the experience,
As just a joke
Life plays on us all—
That inevitably comes
With aging,
For it does.

But this morning
I wake from a dream thinking
It is because at depth
We are forever young.
Ageless. Unchanging.
And this apparent transience
Of things is at odds
With those depths of being,
And what we truly are.

LinkedIn Marketing, Part 3—Richard Geller

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

So, it’s now been 54 days since I started to actively market using LinkedIn. I now have a network of 404 diverse professional contacts. Yesterday I sent out a message to everyone that I just uploaded some significant changes to http://www.aSiteAboutSomething.com —in particular a new “shortcut’ option with a direct link to my books and music. These changes include: a new book, Living On The Outskirts Of Heaven, a lighthearted collection of poems about achieving peace of mind, a “Testimonials” section, and a “Richard Who?” section with some short videos of me speaking about the site and its content. All these changes were the result of feedback I received from my various contacts including those on LinkedIn. Yesterday we also had 192 visits to the site—about double the number the we normally get. Coincidence? I don’t think so. I’m asking all my contacts for feedback (positive and otherwise), and I’m starting a list of the changes we’ll make next—all toward eventually having a global platform that earns the loyalty and support of its audience.